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Self-esteem Exercise: Accepting your Emotions

Self-esteem Exercise: Accepting your Emotions
Exercises, Assertiveness, Coaching, Emotional Intelligence, Self-esteem

Article Rating:::: 25 Ratings :::: Monday, August 6, 2012
 

Purpose

All of us go through some experiences in life where we feel victimised or wronged. The negative emotions and feelings generated by these experiences can stay with us for a long time afterwards and make us feel overtly emotional, weak, stupid or even unworthy. One way to deal with this emotional baggage is to acknowledge it and take responsibility for it. The idea here is that sharing difficult experiences and the feelings generated by them will allow delegates to acknowledge them to another person and therefore more easily come into terms with them.

Objective

Share an experience with your partner in which you felt like a victim and explain to your partner that you acknowledge the feelings and emotions generated by your experience, you take responsibility for your feelings and you accept them.

Setup

  • Divide the delegates to pairs. If you have an odd number of people, either form a group of 3 or pair with one of them with yourself.
  • Ask the pairs to sit as far away from each other as possible to create a sense of privacy. This allows each person to talk comfortably without being overheard by others.
  • Ask delegates to nominate who would be first to share an experience where they felt like a victim.
  • Ask the nominees to share the experience with their partners.
  • Once the experience has been explained, the person who is sharing should explain to their partner how they felt as a result of their experience. They should talk about their specific feelings in as much detail as possible. They should examine their emotions at the time and how the experiences affected their self- esteem, confidence and interactions in their private and professional lives.
  • The partners should encourage the nominees to comfortably share their stories. They can use coaching methods to facilitate the process.
  • Allocate 15 minutes for this part.
  • Swap roles and repeat for another 15 minutes.
  • Bring back everyone together and follow with a discussion.

Timing

Explaining the Exercise: 2 minutes

Activity: 2 rounds * 10 min = 20 minutes

Group Feedback: 10 minutes

Discussion

What did you think first when you were told to share a difficult experience with another person? How did you manage to share it? How did you feel when you shared it with someone else? How did you feel after acknowledging and accepting your emotions? Does this exercise help with accepting how certain experiences make us feel and that it is Ok to feel a certain way after negative experiences? Did you feel more at peace after accepting your emotions generated by your experience? Would you consider using this exercise to evaluate and acknowledge your emotions after negative experiences? 



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